Friday, May 31, 2019

Hospitality

Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality. — Romans 12:13

Rita and Gary were wonderful at practicing hospitality and making others feel welcome in their home.

It felt like family to enter their home or pool, even to new friends and neighbors and acquaintances.

Here's a photo from the summer of 2008 with Gary, Rita and the grandkids out by the pool.

One of our favorite places to be in the summer.

Thursday was chemo #4 for me. Just two more left. Everything went well. No pain, no nausea and out in 4 hours.

Thanking God and our friends for all of their prayers, support, meals and cards.

Thursday, May 30, 2019

Be Joyful in Hope

Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. — Romans 12:10

Be devoted to each other in love.

Honor one another above yourself.

Here's the gluten free cake Marion made for our Memorial Day celebration. 

What a thoughtful group of family members and friends we have!

And they are all great cooks, too.

We are blessed. And a few pounds heavier.




Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Memorial Day Celebration

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. — Hebrews 12:1

Monday we celebrated Memorial Day with friends and family.

Peggy made this delicious and beautiful flag poke cake, Kirk barbecued steak, Kelly brought potato salad, and Marion made a wonderful green salad and chocolate cake.

We had quite a feast!

And we prayed for those who have given their lives for our country, remembering them on this Memorial Day. Praising God for His goodness.

Tuesday, May 28, 2019

God's Glorious Power

We also pray that you will be strengthened with His glorious power so that you will have all the patience and endurance you need. — Colossians 1:11

God's power strengthens us, giving us patience and endurance and everything we need.

How amazing is that!

Here's Gary cooking his famous tacos. They were so delicious that most of us could easily eat six or more.

He also made a yummy cranberry sauce for Thanksgiving and Christmas.

What fun family memories we have.


Monday, May 27, 2019

Rainbow Welcome

I have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the covenant between me and the earth. — Genesis 9:13

Our wonderful neighbor Stan took a photo of this beautiful rainbow at the end of our street and sent it to us via email the night we arrived home from Spokane.

Here's what he wrote to us, "Welcome home.  The rainbow was @5:30 tonight...your welcome home."

Our flight was scheduled to arrive at 5:30. Instead, it was cancelled and our new flight was delayed two hours so we arrived home closer to 8:00 p.m., exhausted.

God set His rainbow in the sky as a sign of His promise to never flood the world again.

Stan greeted us with a rainbow welcome that brightened our evening. We are grateful.


Sunday, May 26, 2019

An Eternal Home

For we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a building from God, an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands. — 2 Corinthians 5:1

Bob (Gary's brother-in-law), Cindy (niece), Doris (sister) and Gary
Sunday we celebrate Gary's homecoming with a viewing at Erickson-Anderon Mortuary in La Mesa.

This photo shows Uncle Bob, Cousin Cindy, Aunt Doris, and her brother Gary four years ago.

This is the obituary that appeared in the Spencer Daily Reporter on Friday, May 17:
https://www.spencerdailyreporter.com/story/2609800.html

Gary John Rogers was born in Estherville, Iowa on Dec. 17, 1933, to Otto Rogers and Lucile Trullinger Rogers. Gary was raised by his mother in Spencer and graduated from Spencer High School in 1953. He served in the United States Air Force from 1953-57. Gary married his high school sweetheart, Rita Kindlespire, on June 30, 1956, and was blessed with almost 55 years of a wonderful marriage.

In 1957 he moved back to Spencer where his first two sons were born. In 1959 he and Rita pulled a U-Haul trailer out to California, where he became employed by Hostess Cake Los Angeles. The next year he was transferred to Camarillo-Ventura where he rose from route driver to assistant supervisor to supervisor. In 1965 he was transferred back to Hostess Los Angeles. In 1969, Gary was promoted to area sales manager. Later that year, Gary was promoted to general sales manager of Hostess Cake for the San Diego bakery and was put in charge of all cake operations for San Diego County, Imperial Valley and Yuma, Arizona.

Gary retired from Hostess Cake and Wonder Bread in 1995 after over 35 years. He was a talented salesman and won many promotions and accolades during his career working as a route driver to senior manager. After retiring, Gary was very active in the La Mesa Senior Softball League and volunteered for many years at Sharp Grossmont Hospital in San Diego.

He and Rita made an annual trip back to Spencer after moving to California to visit friends and relatives. He maintained contact with many friends from his high school class right up to the end.
Gary was a loving husband, dad, grandfather, uncle and friend. Gary could engage anyone in conversation and make them feel right at home. He loved to dance. He was an avid racketball player and had a great love for all sports, at which he excelled in high school.

He passed away May 12, 2019.
Gary is survived by his sister, Doris; three sons: Kyle, Kirk and Kelly; daughters-in-law: Mariana, Carol and Liz; grandchildren: Michael, Maggie, Katie, Abby, Cameron and Carly; nephews: Barry and Rick; and niece, Cindy.

A vigil from 3-5 p.m. will be held on Sunday, May 26, 2019, at Erikson-Anderson Chapel, 8390 Allison Ave., La Mesa, CA 91942 619-466-3297. A memorial service celebrating Gary’s life will be held later in the summer at First Presbyterian Church San Diego.

We are thankful that we have an eternal home in heaven.

Saturday, May 25, 2019

Well Done, Faithful Servant

"Well done, good and faithful servant." — Matthew 25:21

Cameron, Michael, Kirk, Kelly, Gary, Kyle on Lake Okoboji
The viewing for Kirk's dad Gary will be on Sunday, May 26 at Erickson Anderson Mortuary on Allison Avenue in La Mesa from 3:00 - 5:00 p.m.

He will be flown to Iowa to be buried next to Rita (at a date to be determined).

A memorial service will be held later this summer in San Diego.

Here's a photo of the boys on their road trip back to Iowa.

They are standing on the shores of Lake Okoboji.